Well, I heard a testimony from a woman. She said she used to be needy , in other words desperate for love. And that neediness was not attractive.
She found though that when she poured out her heart to God, The Holy Spirit , God would fill that hole with his love and acceptance. Through doing that she came to no longer be needy . His love built her up and she seemed to become her own person.
I think she said was perhaps scared that would God reject her judge her if he poured out her heart to him, but no, he didn’t do that.
Instead, he poured in love and acceptance
To be honest, I am blessed by that testimony. I have some trust issues with Him. So I think its perhaps something he wants to bring to my attention. I know there is verse in the Bible where David encourages for God’s people to pour out their heart before Him:
Psalm 62:8 ESV
Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us. Selah
I know for relationships that self-disclosure is an important part of building close, intimate, enduring relationships. This could also relate to your relationship with the heavenly Father.
I guess little by little I could start off and build from there.